Sometimes appreciation only comes when we choose to see differently.
Although my daughter is 18 years old, she speaks with the aid of an iPad. Rachel cannot tie her own shoes or completely dress herself. She has been diagnosed with significant intellectual and physical disabilities.
There are many things Rachel cannot do without assistance. Yet, my daughter is now the West Delaware High School Homecoming Queen!
Seeing the Not-So Obvious
Rachel has been a student in this school district in Iowa since age 3 when she entered the Early Childhood Education Program. Although not without issues, my husband and I chose to keep her in the same school as her three brothers.
When a school staff member called to tell us Rachel’s senior class had nominated her to the Homecoming Court and asked if we’d allow her to be on it, I cried. She’s in a great class. Everyone’s drawn in by her daily joy and friendliness.
Yet, never had it crossed my mind, they’d consider to honor her in such a way. We said yes.
A week later, the entire high school student body voted and chose Rachel as their 2016 Homecoming Queen. I cried again.
Why did these nearly 500 students choose a young lady with obvious special needs to represent them in such a way?
Maybe some thought it was sweet and the right thing to do.
Maybe some felt sorry for her.
Maybe some even voted for her because they thought it’d be funny.
But after witnessing the joy and tears after coronation, I think many of the West Delaware High School students voted Rachel Homecoming Queen because they’ve come to value what she has to offer:
Choose To See Differently
Every person on this earth has something to offer. Unfortunately, we often miss it because we judge one’s worth by wrong standards.
Rachel will never do mighty things. She’ll never save the physical life of another. She’ll never support herself financially. She’ll never be able to properly care for another, or independently care for herself for that matter.
Her contributions are small. A smile. A “hi.” A wave. A hug … when she can get away with it.
These are attributes often overlooked in our cultural rush to make the next dollar, get the next promotion, or earn another title after our name.
But Rachel’s friends recognize it. Her classmates have been on the receiving end of Rachel’s love and joy for 12 years now.
They not only care about her, but they have grown to appreciate the little she has to offer. They see her small gestures as big and meaningful.
I will never be able to express the gratitude and respect I have for the young people in Rachel’s high school. The same goes for the staff, administration, and Manchester community members who have done their little part in guiding and educating the beautiful girl who now wears the crown.
Dear West Delaware students: You noticed the worth of a young lady many in the world deem unworthy and often unwanted. And you took the time and made the extraordinary effort to acknowledge what she means to you in a very public display. My husband and I applaud you and thank you from the bottom of our hearts.
Rachel can’t offer much of what the world desires. But she possesses something far more valuable: unconditional love for everyone she meets. Kudos to you West Delaware students for noticing!
“You have been bought and paid for by Christ, so you belong to him—be free now from all these earthly prides and fears.” 1 Corinthians 7:23 (TLB)
“There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them.5 There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. 6 There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work. 7 Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good.” 1 Corinthians 12:4-7
Reflections: Is there someone in your life who you need to see differently?
- Small victory of wogging on a morning when it was particularly hard to do; Words to write coming easily; Hanging out with my favorite guy watching Joey’s football game
- Another awesome first: hosting a #Zoom online; Online face-to-face with some of the #EverydayPraise launch team members; Quiet evening home for the four of us before the busyness but fun of Homecoming sets in
- Great eye report for Rachel; Successful homecoming coronation practice for Rachel; Attending a church with an open door policy during the week and a friendly administrative assistant!
- *Challenge of figuring out a new editing program;*How well Rachel handled coronation;*I’m completely overwhelmed and touched by the West Delaware senior class who nominated Rachel to Homecoming Court and the student body who voted her Queen: no words yet
- Rachel’s excitement at wearing her crown today; Our road remaining open despite the flooding; Daniel coming to the homecoming game to watch his sister in her role as newly crowned queen
- Taking our young queen out to dinner and to the homecoming dance with her friend Shelby; Watching Rachel have lots of fun at the dance; A no-rain day
- *More love and congratulations for Rachel at church; *Making the hard choice to outsource the printbook design for #EverydayPraise(now maybe it’ll get finished!); *My young lady, exhausted by the hard work of queenly duties, sleeping before 7
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